{"id":2901,"date":"2024-12-11T03:39:00","date_gmt":"2024-12-11T03:39:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/?p=2901"},"modified":"2026-10-02T01:31:56","modified_gmt":"2026-10-02T01:31:56","slug":"milk-over-guilt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/?p=2901","title":{"rendered":"MILK OVER GUILT"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A pastor friend told me that he was often frustrated in the churches where he had served when the congregations would assume that evangelization was the pastor&#8217;s job rather than their own.<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I am sure this is common in American churches, but what is the solution?<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He had attempted to light a fire under church members to get out there and do the evangelizing themselves. Scripture makes it clear that the Great Commission is every believer&#8217;s duty.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But this had never produced any fruit. I&#8217;m guessing because the root of the problem was not laziness or passivity or busyness. The root goes deeper.<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is a good opportunity to employ the &#8220;Five Whys&#8221;. This is a problem solving strategy where you keep asking &#8220;Why?&#8221; until you get to the root causes.<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Why do the church members think it&#8217;s the pastor&#8217;s job alone to evangelize? Because they don&#8217;t want to do it themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Why don&#8217;t they want to do it themselves? Because they don&#8217;t know how to approach these sorts of conversations.<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Why don&#8217;t they feel comfortable having these conversations? Because they don&#8217;t know what to say.<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Why don&#8217;t they know what to say?\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Uh-oh! Because they themselves don&#8217;t know &#8230; the gospel?<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trying to guilt believers into sharing their faith is a losing proposition IF\u00a0<i><b>they <\/b><\/i>don&#8217;t know &#8211; with confidence &#8211; what the good news is.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But don&#8217;t despair, Pastor! Even the Apostle Paul had this problem.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The solution is to put the solid food on the shelf for the time being and go back to milk.\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A pastor friend told me that he was often frustrated in the churches where he had served when the congregations would assume that evangelization was the pastor&#8217;s job rather than their own. I am sure this is common in American churches, but what is the solution? He had attempted to light a fire under church [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[27,26],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2901","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-five-whys","category-maturity"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2901","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2901"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2901\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2902,"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2901\/revisions\/2902"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2901"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2901"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2901"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}