{"id":3654,"date":"2022-03-25T01:39:00","date_gmt":"2022-03-25T01:39:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/?p=3654"},"modified":"2026-10-02T01:34:11","modified_gmt":"2026-10-02T01:34:11","slug":"must-be","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/?p=3654","title":{"rendered":"MUST BE"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The last chapter of Acts begins with Paul and 275 others crawling onto the sands of Malta after enduring weeks of stormy seas and a horrific shipwreck.<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The local islanders show &#8220;unusual kindness&#8221; to these battered men and build a fire to dry them off and warm them up.<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When Paul reaches for an armload of brush to add to the fire and a poisonous snake sinks its fangs into his hand, jaws drop all around.<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The islanders say to each other, &#8220;Can you imagine this guy surviving a shipwreck only to die from a snake bite? Justice is out to get him. He <i>must be a murderer<\/i>.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But Paul literally shakes it off and warms himself by the fire.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When he doesn&#8217;t swell up or fall over dead, the islanders now conclude, &#8216;He <i>must be a god<\/i>.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We are all susceptible to &#8220;must be&#8221; thinking. That is, &#8220;There is only one possible explanation &#8230; and I know what it is.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is one form of what author Scott Adams calls &#8220;Loserthink&#8221;. He calls these &#8220;must be&#8221; conclusions a &#8220;failure of imagination&#8221;.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Adams writes, &#8220;To keep yourself out of mental jail, continually remind yourself that the most likely explanation for many &#8212; if not most &#8212; situations in life is <i>something you didn&#8217;t imagine<\/i>.&#8221;\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To truly understand what was going on with Paul in that moment, the islanders would have needed to read Acts starting from chapter 1, verse 1. Unfortunately, Luke hadn&#8217;t written it all down yet.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But even if he had, the islanders &#8211; being human &#8211; would still have taken the short cut in their reasoning. He must be a murderer. He must be a god.<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pay attention over the next 24 hours to how often your friends, co-workers, and family draw &#8220;must be&#8221; conclusions about various situations. You&#8217;ll be astounded.*<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">(You do it too &#8211; it&#8217;s just so much easier to see in other people.)<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">God only knows how often our &#8220;must be&#8221; completely misses the mark &#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">__________________________<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">*And if you want to hear a dozen &#8220;must be&#8221; conclusions per minute, listen to political pundits.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The last chapter of Acts begins with Paul and 275 others crawling onto the sands of Malta after enduring weeks of stormy seas and a horrific shipwreck. 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