{"id":4273,"date":"2025-07-08T02:27:00","date_gmt":"2025-07-08T02:27:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/?p=4273"},"modified":"2026-10-02T01:31:18","modified_gmt":"2026-10-02T01:31:18","slug":"free-will","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/?p=4273","title":{"rendered":"FREE WILL?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I wasted some time this evening arguing with a Calvinist in the comment section of a YouTube video.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Upon seeing I was a non-Calvinist, he asked this:<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;I want to ask a genuine question, do you pray for the non believers? If you do, why? In your world view God can not violate the mighty will of man? This is a genuine question.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I have heard Calvinist say things like this &#8211; that indicate they believe their theological opponents hold that man&#8217;s free will is of such a nature that it cannot ever be overridden by God. I don&#8217;t know why they believe this.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It would be a complete non sequitur to say, &#8220;Man has free will, therefore God is incapable of ever imposing His own will upon human beings.&#8221;\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So I wrote back:<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><i>Excellent question. I&#8217;m glad you asked it because maybe I can clear up a common misunderstanding. Just because we say that man has free will it does not follow that we believe God can never &#8220;violate&#8221; man&#8217;s free will. Why would it?\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><i>I don&#8217;t know if you have children or not but I think of it in terms of a father with his children. The father is both free and &#8220;sovereign&#8221; while the kids have free will but are not sovereign.\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><i>The father is not micromanaging the kids&#8217; every move. They have plenty of choice as to what they play and how they spend their time. The father can say, &#8220;It&#8217;s time to clean up&#8221; and the kids can even then decide to disobey. But the father is in charge and is the final authority. So when he says, &#8220;If you don&#8217;t clean up, there will be consequences&#8221;, the kids need to be prepared to suffer the consequences of their actions or inactions.<\/i><\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><i>Of course, the father is also at liberty to bring unexpected blessings into the lives of his children: &#8220;Hey, kids, we&#8217;re going to the amusement park tomorrow!&#8221;<\/i><\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><i>When I pray for non-believers, I pray that God will put people and events and ideas into the pathway of that person that will wake him or her up to God&#8217;s reality and goodness. God reaches people in a million different ways, so I don&#8217;t presume to dictate the means in my prayers as if I would be better equipped to reach that person than their Creator is.\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><i>What does the Calvinist pray for the non-believer? And why?<\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I wasted some time this evening arguing with a Calvinist in the comment section of a YouTube video.\u00a0 Upon seeing I was a non-Calvinist, he asked this: &#8220;I want to ask a genuine question, do you pray for the non believers? If you do, why? 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