{"id":6498,"date":"2013-12-02T03:38:00","date_gmt":"2013-12-02T03:38:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/?p=6498"},"modified":"2026-10-02T01:35:31","modified_gmt":"2026-10-02T01:35:31","slug":"looking-like-christmas-is-not-the-problem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/?p=6498","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;LOOKING&#8221; LIKE CHRISTMAS IS NOT THE PROBLEM"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It&#8217;s beginning to look a LITTLE like Christmas around our house.Our question is: How do you get it to FEEL like Christmas when you are surrounded by coconut trees and lush jungle?\u00a0 And your tree sits in front of an open window? And it feels like you&#8217;re stuck in a perpetual summer?\u00a0 I doubt that night-time temps have been below 74 degrees yet. (I&#8217;m not complaining &#8230; or attempting to rub it in either.\u00a0 It just takes getting used to.)\u00a0 So we&#8217;ve done what we can to get a bit of holiday spirit around here.We put away ALL of our Thanksgiving decorations:<\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/20131117_085037-1.jpg\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And dragged out the couple of totes of Christmas decorations we brought with us in August.\u00a0 The first thing to come out was a sheet of Grinch cling stickers which Sarah excitedly plastered on the wall above her bed.<\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/20131123_191156-1.jpg\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One of our family traditions for several years running has been the building of a gingerbread house. Actually, this tradition falls after Christmas &#8211; when the prepackaged gingerbread houses go on clearance for half price.\u00a0 Last year we found a FOAM gingerbread house on clearance and packed it away for this year. A smart move since A) there is no Wal-Mart within a couple hundred miles and B) a candy house would melt, mold and\/or be eaten by ants if left on the kitchen counter for any length of time.\u00a0 (Back in Indiana we only had to worry about the family dog, Oreo, who once managed to knock a gingerbread house off a shelf and proceed to eat enough walls, icing\u00a0and candy d\u00e9cor to make herself sick.)<\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/20131123_191858-1.jpg\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It wasn&#8217;t long before the gingerbread house attracted the attention of Johnny&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/20131123_195147-1.jpg\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00a0And then Mikenn and Ruysdael.<\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/20131123_195530-1.jpg\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But even with that many &#8220;cooks in the kitchen&#8221;, it turned out pretty cute!<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00a0We bought a new tree last year to bring with us. On clearance after Christmas. For $19.95.\u00a0 This isn&#8217;t it.\u00a0 This tree was left behind by the Lenkers, the previous occupants of the house. It put my tree to shame. (So my tree found a new home in Melissa&#8217;s classroom &#8211; far from any embarrassing comparisons.)<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We all enjoyed sorting through the ornaments we brought with us.\u00a0 Lots of special memories from Christmases past.<\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/20131126_183632-1.jpg\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And then securing them to the tree. Melissa warned the kids to be careful with the ornaments, saying the tile floor would be unforgiving of fragile ornaments.\u00a0 She then proceeded to accidentally demonstrate her point by dropping a ceramic ball ornament\u00a0bought on\u00a0a trip to California several years ago!\u00a0 She was right.<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Meanwhile, at school preparations are being made for the annual Christmas program, coming Wednesday, December 18.\u00a0 Caleb and Hannah are both excited to have speaking lines in a couple of short skits about the history behind some famous Christmas carols.<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And Melissa is making crafts with her students.<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Melissa will tell you &#8211; because it&#8217;s no secret &#8211; that I have been a bit of a Scrooge regarding Christmas over the last few years.\u00a0\u00a0That&#8217;s because\u00a0in the midst of all the hyper-commercialism and overboard decorations and the pressures to cram more-more-more into your schedule, it&#8217;s been\u00a0about as easy\u00a0for me to &#8220;keep Christ in Christmas&#8221; recently as it would be to read a Bible while sitting in the\u00a0center of\u00a0a video game arcade.\u00a0 So in that respect, I am truly looking forward to Christmas this year.\u00a0 Having said that, I anticipate internal struggles greater than ever this year.A few nights ago, we showed &#8220;my Haitian sons&#8221; the old animated version of &#8220;The Grinch Who Stole Christmas&#8221;. At first I wondered what they were thinking of all the made up Seussian words and if they were aware that a lot of what they were hearing wasn&#8217;t real English.But when it finished, I REALLY wondered what they made of the cartoon&#8217;s message: that it&#8217;s possible to celebrate Christmas without all the trappings of decorations and presents and feasting.Maybe it struck them as a rather obvious point!As I walked them down to the front gate in the dark after the movie ended, Johnny broke the silence and said softly, &#8220;Christmas in Haiti is not so good.&#8221;He paused a second, then added, &#8220;My family has no tree&#8230; no electricity.&#8221;But the baby Jesus didn&#8217;t come into the shopping mall world 2,000 years ago.\u00a0\u00a0IF I meet\u00a0Him this Christmas &#8211; if any of us meet Him, it will likely be far from the decorations and parties.Perhaps in\u00a0the world of no tree, no electricity.Come, Lord Jesus.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s beginning to look a LITTLE like Christmas around our house.Our question is: How do you get it to FEEL like Christmas when you are surrounded by coconut trees and lush jungle?\u00a0 And your tree sits in front of an open window? And it feels like you&#8217;re stuck in a perpetual summer?\u00a0 I doubt that [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":6499,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6498","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6498","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=6498"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6498\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6511,"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6498\/revisions\/6511"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/6499"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=6498"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=6498"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=6498"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}