{"id":7069,"date":"2021-03-06T04:34:00","date_gmt":"2021-03-06T04:34:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/?p=7069"},"modified":"2026-10-02T01:35:03","modified_gmt":"2026-10-02T01:35:03","slug":"the-lamest-virtue","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/?p=7069","title":{"rendered":"THE LAMEST VIRTUE"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00a0Recently I&#8217;ve discovered audio books on YouTube by Malcolm Gladwell, specifically <i>Talking to Strangers<\/i> and <i>Outliers<\/i>. I really enjoyed the books and Gladwell&#8217;s different perspective and felt like I learned some things, but I had not been familiar with his writing before the algorithm brought his books to me.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It matters to me who I am listening to, so I looked up Gladwell&#8217;s reputation &#8230; on Twitter. Not surprisingly, there was a spectrum of opinions stretching all the way from &#8220;brilliant&#8221; to &#8220;idiotic&#8221;.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This disturbed me. I don&#8217;t want to waste time listening to an idiot.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One tweet linked to a Daily Beast article about the Beatles (whom Gladwell discussed briefly in <i>Outliers<\/i>). In that article, the Daily Beast author describes Gladwell as &#8220;<span style=\"background-color: white\">\u00a0the halo-haired New Yorker<i style=\"background-color: white\">\u00a0<\/i><span style=\"background-color: white\">pop intellectual whose simplistic, feel-good summaries of contemporary research on trends (<\/span><i style=\"background-color: white\">The Tipping Point<\/i><span style=\"background-color: white\">) and decision-making (<\/span><i style=\"background-color: white\">Blink<\/i><span style=\"background-color: white\">) have transformed him into a corner-office icon who can command $80,000 per speech on the corporate lecture circuit&#8221;.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He&#8217;s a &#8220;pop&#8221; intellectual? His insights are &#8220;simplistic&#8221; and &#8220;feel-good&#8221;? What&#8217;s wrong with me that I didn&#8217;t recognize this for myself?\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When I stopped to reflect, though, I recalled one of my major lessons from 2020: You can&#8217;t necessarily believe any individual&#8217;s take on any other person&#8217;s reputation. Because fallen people LOVE to run other people&#8217;s reputations into the ground, given half a chance.<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">(And YES, I did this myself a few days ago when I wrote about Craig Groeschel &#8211; whom I have never met and know precious little about. I am one of those fallen people.)\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So I concluded that I could continue to listen to Gladwell in good conscience, especially since I certainly do not believe everything I see or read or hear anymore anyway. And this morning I was especially heartened to hear an interview of Gladwell which contained the following exchange:<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Interviewer: You really enjoy contradicting yourself. (This was a friendly jab.)<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Gladwell: I do, yeah.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Interviewer: Why?<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Gladwell: Well, I&#8217;m more worried about not contradicting myself. I would be very concerned if I were still saying the same things today as I was saying ten years ago. That would strike me as being deeply problematic.<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Interviewer: Why?<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Gladwell: I would like to think that my current self is a good deal more interesting and thoughtful than my ten-years-before self. I&#8217;ve never attached any stigma whatsoever to contradiction. Consistency is surely the lamest of all human virtues.<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That is profound. (Especially for a &#8220;pop intellectual&#8221;!)<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Gladwell is giving himself an opening for changing his mind. And he is extending the same courtesy to everyone else.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Today&#8217;s American culture &#8230; and America&#8217;s Christian culture &#8230; could use a strong shot of Gladwell&#8217;s recognition of people&#8217;s ability to grow and change and think differently over time.\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0Recently I&#8217;ve discovered audio books on YouTube by Malcolm Gladwell, specifically Talking to Strangers and Outliers. I really enjoyed the books and Gladwell&#8217;s different perspective and felt like I learned some things, but I had not been familiar with his writing before the algorithm brought his books to me.\u00a0 It matters to me who I [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7069","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7069","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7069"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7069\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7070,"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7069\/revisions\/7070"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7069"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7069"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7069"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}