{"id":7242,"date":"2023-02-10T02:19:00","date_gmt":"2023-02-10T02:19:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/?p=7242"},"modified":"2026-10-02T01:33:12","modified_gmt":"2026-10-02T01:33:12","slug":"the-lifespan-of-a-lie","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/?p=7242","title":{"rendered":"THE LIFESPAN OF A LIE"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In a similar vein to &#8220;People don&#8217;t have ideas &#8211; Ideas have people&#8221; is this quote:<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;It&#8217;s easier to fool people than it is to convince them they have been fooled.&#8221;\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Over the past decade or so, these words have often been attributed to Mark Twain, but the factchecking websites cannot find this quote in any of his written material.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">(If it matters, the false attribution was the work of Twitter.)<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Still, the factcheckers did find a similar idea expressed in Twain&#8217;s autobiography:<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;How easy it is to make people believe a lie, and how hard it is to undo that work again!&#8221;\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The curious thing about this quote is that in speaking of &#8220;how hard it is to undo a lie&#8221;, Twain was thinking of two distinct difficulties: 1) Mustering up the courage to confess a lie and then 2) Convincing those who believed it that NOW you are telling the truth.<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The difficulty of undoing a lie was a lesson Twain learned from one of his first experiences of &#8220;yarn-spinning&#8221; before a live audience.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As a young boy, Twain had overheard a family visitor, one Dr. Peake, describe a horrific mansion fire he had once witnessed. The good doctor recounted the experience with drama and great detail. Young Twain was mesmerized.<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">During a return visit by Dr. Peake three or four years later, Twain &#8211; now an adolescent &#8211; rehearsed all the details of that great fire to an enraptured audience &#8230; but under the pretense of seeing the whole thing in a hypnotic vision. Having overlooked the fact that Twain had heard the story from Peake himself, Peake and the others present were astonished.<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Thirty five years later, Twain wrestled with a desire to come clean to his mother. To &#8220;undo&#8221; the lie.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To Twain&#8217;s amazement, when he confessed, his mother would have none of it. &#8220;She refused to believe that I had invented my visions myself; she said it was folly: that I was only a child at the time and could not have done it.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He could not convince her otherwise. She died wholeheartedly believing his original lie while, with equal firmness and determination, discounting his later confession as a lie.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Twain concludes this episode with a poignant observation on the lifespan of a lie: &#8220;If I had taken out a life policy on this [lie] the premiums would have bankrupted me ages ago.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In other words &#8230; some lies never die.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In a similar vein to &#8220;People don&#8217;t have ideas &#8211; Ideas have people&#8221; is this quote: &#8220;It&#8217;s easier to fool people than it is to convince them they have been fooled.&#8221;\u00a0 Over the past decade or so, these words have often been attributed to Mark Twain, but the factchecking websites cannot find this quote in [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7242","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7242","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7242"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7242\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7243,"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7242\/revisions\/7243"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7242"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7242"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/stevegrossblog.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7242"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}